Many women use visualisations to help them during labour. It helps to focus the mind inward as well as helps you avoid distractions. Visualisations can also help you focus on a rhythm of breathing. Visualising to help you manage a situation is a form of self-hypnosis and something that you can practise over time to increase the impact is has. One thing I've never been entirely sure about is when antenatal classes are prescriptive in what a woman should visualise. I remember being told to visualise a flower opening during my classes, but no matter how hard I tried, it just didn’t work for me, instead my mind kept going back to visualising what was physically happening. The reason this happened was that I was interested in what was actually happening and how each part of my body was working to enable a natural birth. I decided to take my own visualisation forward and utilised it during labour, as it was something I felt much more comfortable about, I believe it was much more powerful for me that something which didn’t quite fit.

So, if you're pregnant and you are finding it hard to stick with the visualisations you have been given, then think about what interests you have and how your visualisations can fit around those. For example, if you like cycling, imaging a rhythmic wheel turning in time with your breathing may help, or if you like scuba diving, imagine the slow breathing you do through your regulator and how wonderful it feels to be underwater. If you're a care provider, then utilise what resources and skills your client has rather than ask them to learn new skills. You will find they will be able to visualise things much more easily, which will enable them to maintain inner focus and work more effectively with their bodies. The Psychology of Giving Birth programme available on this website works with mum and birth companion to teach them how to create their own relaxing visualisations, once you know how to do this, you will have these skills for life and you can pass this wonderful technique on to your children too.

Following a recent question I posted on Twitter asking people to send me what visualisations helped them during their labour, below are the responses, these also include feedback from mums I have helped. As you can see, many of them are completely unique and wouldn’t be found in any antenatal class! Take a look through these and see if any of them might work for you.

• The actual mechanics of the body and focusing on each part working effectively, almost in slow motion
• Contractions/surges as pate being spread on toast (this lady really missed pate!)
• A feeling of warmth spreading over my body
• I intuitively imagined a flower opening in bloom
• Clouds of different colours - went through the spectrum
• I visualised my cervix opening the size of a football field, with my baby coming through easily and with love
• A quiet warm beach with gently lapping waves
• Being in warm soothing water
• A positive energy force washing over me body in waves (had a particular interest in reiki)
• Breathing in time with a hot air balloon rising and falling across the sky
• My uterus was an icing bag and I was gently massaging the icing down (a cake decorator of course!)
• Fields of wheat in the wind
• Blowing up balloons and watching them drift away
• In a squatting position imagining there was a magnet on the floor helping to draw my baby down and out
• My body was made up of different instruments which made an orchestra, me and my baby were conducting the symphony, each part coming in to play at just the right moment with just the right tune
• There was a wonderful imaginary carer, gently massaging my uterus with each contraction
• In the last few weeks of pregnancy I began to see a more animalistic side come out in me and during labour I completely took on the characteristics of this animal, the animal gave me confidence that my body and mind was capable of a having a natural birth

And of course it's not just the mums who can utilise visualisations, here's some from birth companions too…

• The room was a fort and I only let down the drawbridge to people we trusted
• I was a lion protecting my family
• I was on top of a mountain, being able to clearly see everything and had the strength of the mountain within me
• I was a tree, solid, strong and sheltering my partner

I will continue to share new visualisations I hear about, so if you would like to share yours, please do add a comment.